Sunday, September 03, 2006


Everyday thousands of people parade in and out of the subway and we hardly pay attention to those around us as we desperately try to get to our destinations on time .. I was there yesterday and began to notice an old man standing there by himself dressed in rags, his mental state was failing him, he was talking to himself as though there was another person standing beside him, soon his hands were wondering around thin air as he pretended to have a conversation with someone and began to shake hands with the ‘person’ beside him .. I couldn’t stop wondering what had led him to his mental state, was it old age? was he abandoned? forgotten? was it poverty that led him to insanity? as we got to the next stop he insisted on his friend to go first as he pointed out with his hands towards the door and soon left the station others were too busy reading their papers, listening to music and anxiously trying to figure out which stop was theirs, it was as though nothing had happened .. I wish that we lived in a society that cared, a society that didn’t forget others and had its doors always open. I can only hope that things would someday change but I know it would be a long battle to play ..

5 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Unfortunately things will not change, intact only get worst. Let’s face, we are forced to live a life of solitude and discontent. The problem in my opinion, NO HEART. No affection to other fellow human beings. I noticed that in the west, the coldness is not only in the weather…it speared to human emotions as well. People have this “It’s not my problem” attitude that seems to be the common sentiment.
Everyone minding their own business, keeping their head down…watching their feet. I feel like we are being constantly conditioned to “Not Care”. Isn’t it “cool” to not care these days? Isn’t it “cool” to mock old people? Isn’t it “cool” to have casual sex and never have a family?
I’m afraid we are constantly being modified to act more and more like robots and less as humans. Why?
Because “they” want us to be salves…they want us to bow down…they want us submit …they want us to be a new hypnotised hybrid race to embrace their reign…in silence.

9/04/2006 4:57 AM  
Blogger Chica Bonita Q8 said...

I agree, the way society sees things today is distant from the ideal one. We have forgotten what it is like to care and show compassion toward others. Instead we have created a society that lacks emotions or at least ignores things. It is as though we have become cold and heartless as you mentioned ..

9/05/2006 4:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

There you go, both of you said it “Nothing will change, it is getting worse”. It is a battle a single individual or a group even wouldn’t win because it ain’t of interest to certain people in certain countries, positions of certain ranks etc….

All we can do ourselves, is show the compassion and pray only wish that it would’ve been different *sigh*

9/06/2006 8:45 AM  
Blogger freeq8 said...

هذه هي الحقيقه المؤلمه...عندما يصبح الناس مكائن خاصه للعمل فقط...بلا شعور بلا أحساس وبلا أنسانيه ... ويسود شعور عدم المبالاه في ما حولك ...ويطغي شعور الأنانيه ...نفسي ..نفسي... ويصبح الأنسان أله صماء محدوده الشعور...هذه الامور هي النتائج المباشره لعملية التطور الانساني المبني على الأفكار والنظريات الوضعيه الأقتصاديه منها أو الأنسانيه... سواء الرأسماليه منها.. أو الاشتراكيه أو الشيوعيه ....الخ
هذه النظريات والأفكار تلغي العلاقات الأنسانيه... وتهمش التواصل والترابط الأسري...مقابل تعضيم الربح أو سيطره القله على الخيرات...وهذه هي أهم مشاكل المجتمعات الغربيه...التي ألغت مفهوم الأسره الكبيره... والعواطف الانسانيه...والتواصل والحب بدون مقابل...وركزت على مفاهيم الانتاج والربحيه...وهذا ما سبب ما شاهدتيه وكتبتيه في قصتك ...نحمد الله على التواصل والحب والعلاقات الأنسانيه الموجده عندنا وعسي الله يدومها ...لكننا أيضا نبالغ فيها ...ونسوء أستخدامها...فتظهر الواسطه والمحسوبيه...والامراض الأجتماعيه الاخرى

والصحيح... أن نعيش خليطاً جميلاً ومدروساً بين المفهومين العربي والاوربي أي بين المفهوم العاطفي العائلي ومفهوم الأنتاج والاداءوالعمل الجاد...وأن نأخذ بأفضل ما فيهما ...وأن نأخذ بالنظريه الالهيه ونطبقها التطبيق السليم ...وليس كما نريد ...أو يريد المتشددون منا

هذه وجه نظر أشوي طويله سامحيني على الأطاله بس موضوعك وايد شيق وانا احب المواضيع الأنسانيه
وشكراً

9/07/2006 6:08 AM  
Blogger Chica Bonita Q8 said...

chikapappi: its too bad that most people don't care about minorities ..

freeq8: lilasaf tafkeerhum chithi

9/07/2006 11:36 PM  

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