Monday, December 04, 2006

Hospital Window


Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.
Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside. The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.
As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene. One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see it. In his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Days and weeks passed.
One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the Lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone. Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."

20 Comments:

Blogger Diver said...

A positive way of looking at the world is all we need.

12/04/2006 5:29 AM  
Blogger Dr.Lost said...

liked the moral of the story.. wish more ppl like that existed..

12/04/2006 1:48 PM  
Blogger Chica Bonita Q8 said...

diver: true ..

dr.lost: me too :)

12/05/2006 1:14 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

sometimes it take what others don't have to appreciate whats around you..

great story :)

12/05/2006 4:06 AM  
Blogger Herolike! said...

The first time I read that story, I think it was at middle school. I still don't know how to feel about it. There's more to it than optimism, I think.

12/05/2006 4:24 PM  
Blogger Chica Bonita Q8 said...

herolike: 'there is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations ..'

12/06/2006 12:19 AM  
Blogger Dr.Lost said...

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12/08/2006 11:57 AM  
Blogger Dr.Lost said...

hmm .. so u work at a hospital or you end up bein a patient there a lot?? im confused..

12/08/2006 5:41 PM  
Blogger 3abeer said...

positive things enhance and boost the amune system, I guess he was giving him some hope.

Beautiful post :)

12/09/2006 1:35 AM  
Blogger Dr.Lost said...

seriously you need to check your blog more often.. i hate waiting for replies, we're impatient u and i remember??!

12/09/2006 3:53 PM  
Blogger Chica Bonita Q8 said...

dr.lost: I was working in the hospital since it was a part of my fellowship but as for being a patient I guess I am one since I have a medical history .. sorry about not checking things earlier I've been busy lately, just got back from a party ..

3abeer: Oh thank you :)

12/09/2006 11:29 PM  
Blogger Dr.Lost said...

fellowship? so you're dr too?

12/10/2006 10:13 AM  
Blogger Chica Bonita Q8 said...

no i'm working on it, I guess I just got lucky ..

12/10/2006 11:09 AM  
Blogger Dr.Lost said...

ahhhhggghhhh !! tryin to confuse me even more? im post on call which means im workin with 3 brain cells right now.. so what exactly do you do then ? me no get what you shhhaying !

12/10/2006 5:54 PM  
Blogger Dr.Lost said...

wait are you studying sciences or are you in med school?

12/11/2006 12:00 PM  
Blogger Chica Bonita Q8 said...

dr.lost: I was in medical school but I took a leave of absence, now i'm doing my masters in med ..

12/13/2006 4:53 AM  
Blogger Dr.Lost said...

lool i give up.. i guess coz we have different systems then im more confused, i mean to get a masters in med school doesnt that mean you gotta finish med school? but you left it so ha?? nevermind im sure i annoyed you with this subject.. wish you the best of luck in whatever it is thats goin for you.. so when do you finish then?

12/13/2006 9:49 PM  
Blogger Chica Bonita Q8 said...

thank you same to you, I'll be done in a year inshala ..

12/13/2006 10:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

R u in Boston Now?

1/21/2007 5:00 PM  
Blogger Chica Bonita Q8 said...

no still in Kuwait .. why, do I know you?

1/22/2007 2:48 PM  

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